Today, much like a day months before that, I sat by myself while a family member stood alone to protect all that she holds dear.
My sister has just finished a ten month ordeal that ended in a court order. She has shown fortitude, strength, love, and anger. Today, she most likely dug deep and stood on the firm conviction that love always wins and the truth would light the way. Leaving a court room triumphant can be bittersweet, with the emphasis on sweet this time around.
Several months ago, I sat holding my father’s jacket and his wallet in my lap, leaving my handbag on the floor of the surgery suite. He never took off his street clothes as the surgeon took a brief look and an even quicker biopsy. The bottoms of his shoes were my only sight line on him as they raised his form to horizontal on the padded table. He was there alone with his thoughts, while my mind raced. A large Band-Aid in place, we were swiftly off to the safety of the car.
Both events ended well for my family, and for that I count my lucky stars. However, I am trying to absorb and learn from the power these two people voicelessly reminded me that I also harbor. It has been over 20 years since I stood in a courtroom alone; the last time I was alone in a hospital bed, they handed me a baby of my own.
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Today is women’s day, everywhere. Women always stand alone, even when there is a loving life companion, in the end, you will face it alone. We are made of strong, good material, that is capable of starting life and being there when it ends. I do not know what happened to this woman that stood alone, just let her know, there were a lot of us there with her.
Daisy:
Thank you for reading our blog and for taking time to respond.
My sister is indeed an incredible woman and we were raised well by people who loved – and love – us. She is indeed strong and uses it only for good.
Have a great night.
-sloane
Both of you amaze me with your wisdom and strength. I just toasted casey’s end today. Sawyer is a chip off the young block. Love you both
Di:
Thank you for reading our blogs and for taking time to write us a note.
I accept your toast on Casey’s behalf and look forward to seeing you later this month!
xoxo
-sloane
While I have no idea what Casey is dealing with, I do know that you both are strong intelligent women. I wish you nothing but the best!
Teresa:
It is always nice to hear from you! Thank you for reading our blogs and for responding.
Casey will tell you all about it, should you wish to hear/learn more. It is her story to tell. She shares it freely, yet in person.
Thank you for the generous compliments. It was a good day and love prevailed.
– sloane
A heartwarming read. I love to know there are triumphs in our community.
(PS – Judge Round is my son’s girlfriend’s dad 🙂
XO
Christina!
It’s such a small world! Judge Rounds seems to be very fair….
Thank you for reading our blogs and for taking time to comment! You must have a very full calendar right now with all your preparations for your great celebration.
Have a great rest of the week.
– sloane
I’m not a woman, but I can tell you that eventually we all stand alone. And when I need someone to remind me that I am striong and worthy, I walk into Stuff and walk out a better man. I love, admire and appreciate you both. Thank you.
Steven:
You don’t have to be a woman to have deep compassion and convictions. But you already know that!
What kind things you said in your note. Thank you for reading our blogs and for taking time to write to us. I am lucky to lead a life full to the brim with amazing people like yourself.
xoxo
– sloane
I’ve stood alone. And learned that I prefer standing with women like you … strong, smart, funny.
Landa:
Thanks for taking not only time to read out blogs but for taking time to write us a note. And such a nice note at that!
Sister, I’ll stand with you any damn day. But I hope you already know that…
xoxox
– sloane